Maximum Recreational Depth

I was watching season 4 of the show “Billions”, when a newly introduced character brought up the term “maximum recreational depth“. It immediately caught my attention, so I began to do some research. Naturally, Google informed me that this term was also the name of this particular episode, ha. To provide some context, two characters…

Spoiled.

Something funny happened today. I took my car (2016 Toyota Prius, Eco) in for servicing, and was given a loaner car to use for the time being. The loaner was a Toyota Corolla – pretty decent car. I was super grateful to have the loaner, but it definitely felt significantly different from my Prius and…

I was wrong.

And truthfully, I hate to be wrong. I feel like I was robbed of an opportunity. However… I’m wise enough to see that “this” was our best case scenario. Regardless, I’m now left feeling frustrated, as I unpack each level of the cognitive dissonance that I’m experiencing. Woefully, there’s no shortcuts here; I’ll have to…

2019: My Selfish Year.

They say your 20’s are suppose to be your “selfish years,” right? (Referring to the quote below…) “Your twenties are your ‘selfish’ years. It’s a decade to immerse yourself in every single thing possible. Be selfish with your time, and all the aspects of you. Tinker with shit, travel, explore, love a lot, love a…

Mood:
Favorite Songs of 2018

For the past 11 years, I’ve made a playlist with all the songs I’ve found that resonate with me within that year. Here are a few of my favorites from 2018: I Like That – Janelle Monáe As I Am – H.E.R. Come Through and Chill (feat. J. Cole) – Miguel Don’t Play It Safe…

Fix You

” When the tears come streaming down your face  ‘Cause you lose something you can’t replace  When you love someone but it goes to waste  What could it be worse?” After taking the StrenghsFinders 2.0 assessment multiple times, I’ve found that two of my top strengths (in varying order) are Empathy and Restorative. Empathy You…

Mood: Melting

Give me a beautiful sunset, light rain, some blankets, and this playlist.   Easy – Anna Wise & Xavier Omär You’re The One (feat. Syd) – KAYTRANADA Don’t Let Me Down (feat. Khalid) – Sabrina Claudio Take Me Away (feat. Syd) – Daniel Caesar Mood – Bobby Earth Hurt You First – Niia Face (feat….

Validated!

Today, I learned what the “Top 5 Stressors of Life” are: Death of a Spouse or Loved One Divorce or Separation Moving Homes Personal Injury or Illness Job Loss The fifth one is what this post will be about–Job Loss. I briefly alluded to the effects that this life event had on me in my previous post, The…

Tú.

Open-Minded I love when the primary objective is to understand first. Instead of solely arguing your point, the goal is to understand the perspective of the other. Honest I love when no matter the circumstance, being truthful is a priority. I’m 1000% more likely to understand an ugly truth, than to appreciate a lie told…

Mood:
Wistful Melancholy

Falling Down – Duran Duran Say (All I Need) – OneRepublic White Flag – Dido Bittersweet Symphony – The Verve Warning Sign – Coldplay Let Go – Frou Frou 2AM (Breathe) – Anna Nalick Lovesong – Adele Fix You – Coldplay She Will Be Loved – Maroon 5 What Sarah Said – Death Cab for…